Bethesda Friends Meeting

weekly bfm bulletin and events


Sunday, October 20, 2023

Fri., October 18 

12:00 p.m. 

AFSC Action Hour: Ceasefire Now 

 

6:00 p.m. 

Virtual Registration Deadline for FGC Fall Friends of Color Retreat 

Sat., October 19 

10:00 a.m. 

BYM Working Group on Racism: Prof. Loretta Ross Presentation 

 

4:00 p.m. 

Friends Wilderness Center Campfire Open Mic 

Sun., October 20 

9:00 a.m. 

Committee Day: Pastoral Care 

 

9:15 a.m. 

Committee Day: Ministry & Worship 

 

11:00 a.m. 

Meeting for Worship + Child Care + First Day School  

 

11:00 a.m. 

First Day School Walkathon to End Homelessness 

 

12:15 p.m. 

Potluck 

 

3:00 p.m. 

Songs for the Earth: Multifaith Musical Service 

 

7:00 p.m. 

FGC Gen X Quakers Discussion Group 

Mon., October 21 

8:00 p.m. 

Nice Racism Book Group Meeting 

Tues., October 22 

7:00 p.m. 

Comparative Religions - Great Minds of the East 

Wed., October 23 

8:00 p.m. 

Mid-Week Worship (check in by email) 

Thurs., October 24 

5:30 p.m. 

AFSC Meeting for Worship re: Peace in Palestine & Israel 

Fri., October 25 

12:00 p.m. 

AFSC Action Hour: Ceasefire Now 

Sat., October 26 

All Day 

BYM Camp Work Day: Catoctin 

 

10:00 a.m. 

BYM Working Group on Racism: Debby Irving Presentation 

 

7:00 p.m. 

Halloween Party at Sandy Spring Friends Meeting 

Sun., October 27 

9:00 a.m. 

Committee Day: Peace and Social Justice 

 

11:00 a.m. 

Meeting for Worship + Child Care + First Day School  

 

1:00 p.m. 

Coordinating Gathering (via Zoom) 

 

7:30 p.m. 

Experiment with Light (via phone/email, Zoom sharing) 

Tues., October 29 

9:00 a.m. 

Friends Community School Open House 

 

7:00 p.m. 

Comparative Religions - Great Minds of the East 

SUNDAYS AT BETHESDA FRIENDS MEETING

Head of Meeting: Today, Margaret B.; October 27, Bernie B.


Pastoral Care: If you have concerns about personal issues or questions about membership, Bethesda Friends Meeting, or Quaker faith and practice, please be in touch with today’s Friendly Ear, a member of the Pastoral Care Committee.  

The person's name and contact info is announced after worship, or you can ask via our Contact Us form. You can also reach a Friendly Ear by sending an email message to friendlyear@bethesdafriends.org, and a member of the Pastoral Care Committee will get in touch with you.


The Social Concern for October is Interfaith Works which provides affordable housing and social services to homeless families in Montgomery County. To learn more about Interfaith Works, as well as BFM's regular budget needs, please go to the end of this bulletin. 


Meeting for Worship: Bethesda Friends worship together each Sunday at 11:00 a.m. Friends can participate in person at the Meeting House or remotely via Zoom.

Participating in worship at the Meeting House. Friends are invited to gather in person at 11:00 a.m. for Meeting for Worship at the Meeting House

Participating in worship via Zoom. To join using Zoom, you can obtain the link in your weekly Bulletin or use our Contact Us form.  


First Day School (FDS) for children 5 years of age and older is offered on the first and third Sunday of each month during the school year. Childcare for this age group is offered on non-FDS Sundays. 

Childcare and Youth-care during Meeting for Worship: Childcare is available on non-holiday weekends during Meeting for Worship from 10:45 a.m. to 12:20 p.m. for children under 5 years of age. Paid caregivers provide this service.  New attendees: Please sign in at the child care room on the lower level of the Meeting house. 


IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT

Fellowship & Hospitality is still seeking to fill openings on: November 24, and December 22 & 29, 2024. Please use our Contact Us form to volunteer. 

EVENTS THIS SUNDAY, October 20

FDS Walkathon for the Homeless: On October 20, during Meeting for Worship, Religious Education and First Day School students will host the annual Neighborhood Walk to End Homelessness. Donations to the social concerns box will go to the Interfaith Works, a program which provides emergency shelter, supportive housing, essential needs, and an employment program in Montgomery County. You can also donate here. Please walk with us, make a donation, or both as we let our lives speak this Sunday! 
 
Potluck: All are invited to attend Potluck in the Groome Building following Rise of Meeting on Sunday, October 20. Please bring a dish if you can, main, side, salad or dessert. The kitchen in the Groome Building will be open after 10:30 a.m. to keep dishes warm or cold. Please include with your dish a note of any possible dietetic concerns (contains nuts, Vegan, Gluten-free, etc.). If you run short of time, bring some fruit or a cold beverage, or just yourself. You’ll be very welcome. This month's Potluck is hosted by the F&H committee, with help from many volunteers. If you can help out, or have question, please call Peggy Edwards at (202) 270-1816. 
 
Songs for the Earth - Multifaith Musical Service: All are invited to a free multifaith musical service on October 20 from 3:00 p.m. to 4:15 p.m. at Coffman Chapel, Hood College, in Frederick, MD. There will be music, readings, and prayers by several local religious communities. Please RSVP here. 

FGC Gen X Quakers Discussion Group: Connect with fellow Gen Xers to explore Quaker spirituality, share personal experiences, and engage in meaningful conversations about faith, community, and social issues in a supportive and open environment. This newly formed, experimental group will meet on the third Sunday of each month and grow and evolve over time. Sign up here to join in. These are free events and the next one is October 20 at 7:00 p.m. 

EVENTS COMING UP SOON (OCTOBER 18 - OCTOBER 29)

AFSC Action Hour for a Ceasefire in Gaza: Join American Friends Service Committee (AFSC) staff every Friday at 12:00 p.m. to hear updates from Gaza. Then, take action with us as we contact our elected officials and call for an immediate cease-fire and humanitarian access to Gaza. Our elected officials need to keep hearing from us. To attend, please register at this link. 

Registration Deadline for Virtual FGC Friends of Color Retreat: The Friends General Conference Fall 2024 Retreat for Friends of Color will be held from November 1 through November 3, 2024 as a hybrid retreat. Please visit this link to learn more and to register. The virtual registration deadline is October 18.  
 
Working Group on Racism Presentation - Prof. Loretta Ross: On Saturday, October 19 at 10:00 a.m., via Zoom, Smith College Professor Loretta Ross will discuss with Friends how bringing empathy to our antiracism and other social justice work can make it more effective and more enjoyable. You can register for the workshop at this link. 

Friends Wilderness Center Campfire Open Mic: On Saturday, October 19, from 4:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., all are invited to gather around a campfire fire with your instruments, songs, stories, poems... toast s'mores, share & appreciate gifts freely offered in community at Friends Wilderness Center in Harper's Ferry, WV. Learn more at this link. You can also stay or arrive for the Meteor Shower Viewing later at night. 

Nice Racism Book Group Meeting: The next meeting of the monthly, year-long book study of Robin D’Angelo’s book Nice Racism: How Progressive White People Perpetuate Racial Harm will meet at 8:00 p.m. on October 21. Please use our Contact Us form for details.  

Comparative Religions - Great Minds of the East: The Comparative Religions class starts a new course in September which will go through May 2025 - Great Minds of the Eastern Intellectual Tradition with 36 lectures by Professor Grant Hardy of the University of North Carolina at Asheville, through The Great Courses. This is a survey course which begins with the Vedas and Upanishads and ends with Sun Yat-sen and Mao Tsedong, covering Iran, India, China, Tibet, Korea, and Japan. We meet weekly on Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. via Zoom for a half-hour lecture followed by a half-hour discussion. All are welcome. If just a few topics seem interesting, you are welcome to just come for those. Please use our Contact Us form for the Zoom link.  

Bethesda Friends Meeting’s stay-at-home Mid-Week Worship by e-mail is on Wednesdays, from 8:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Each of us worships at home without video or audio, coordinating our timing by emails sent at the start and end of worship. To enhance our sense of gathering, the opening email lets us know who is present. At rise of meeting, participants are invited to worship- share with the group via reply-all. For details and the link, use our Contact Us form. 

AFSC Meeting for Worship re: Peace in Israel and Palestine: The violence in Palestine and Israel has impacted the AFSC community in many ways, all of them tragic and heartbreaking. Please join us every Thursday at 5:30 p.m. for a Meeting for Worship via Zoom, gathering in solidarity and holding those most impacted in the Light. All are invited. Please register at this link to receive the Zoom link to attend. 

BYM Camp Work Day at Catoctin: On Saturday, October 26 from around 9:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., there will be a Community Work Day at Catoctin Quaker Camp in Thurmont, MD. Tasks are available for all ages (minors must be accompanied by an adult) and skill levels, including cleaning, yard work, basic repairs and maintenance, and securing facilities for the winter. BYM Camp Work Days are a wonderful way to meet new Friends, learn new skills, and support the flourishing ministry of our camps. Visit this link for more details and to sign up. 

Working Group on Racism Presentation - Debby Irving: On Saturday, October 26 at 10:00 a.m., via Zoom, Debby Irving, the author of Waking Up White, and Finding Myself in the Story of Race, will offer a workshop designed to support white people in making the paradigm shift from ‘fixing’ and ‘helping’ those believed to be inferior to focusing on internalized white superiority and its role in perpetuating racism at the individual, institutional, and cultural levels. There will be pauses for reflection, dialog, and Q&A. You can register here. 

Sandy Spring Halloween Party: The Sandy Spring Friends Meeting Halloween Party will take place on October 26 from 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. This is an event for fun, feasting, and fellowship that draws the whole community together, including new friends from as far afield as Baltimore and DC! From great Halloween standards like pumpkin carving, hayrides, and campfire s'mores to new favorites like our epic potions bar, green brain launching, and the always creative haunted house experience (courtesy of our incredible Young Friends group!), it's a blast for all ages. Please join us! 


Coordinating Gathering:Representatives of most BFM committees meet during the week before Meeting for Worship with a Concern for Business to discuss the upcoming agenda, season issues before the Meeting, and discuss committee challenges if any. These meetings are open to all. There will be one on Sunday, October 27, at 1:00 p.m. Please use our Contact Us form for the Zoom link.  

Experiment with Light is a meditative and centering practice. There will be a session on Sunday, October 27 from 7:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Starting at 7:30 p.m., you can follow the prompts at home and write or draw responses you have experienced during those prompts. We use the meditation on the individual in modern language, full length, 37-minute version. Then around 8:30 p.m., if you would like to worship-share from your meditation experience please join us via Zoom. You can use our Contact Us form for the Zoom link.  

Friends Community School Open Houses: Friends Community School in College Park, MD is a K-8 Quaker progressive school that thoughtfully guides young children through adolescence, instilling compassion, curiosity, and confidence.  If you are interested in considering FCS for your child, please visit at 9:00 a.m. on October 29, November 19, December 7, or January 9 for an open house. Find details on the Admissions / Visit FCS page of the school website. The early application deadline (50% application fee) for the school is Monday, December 9, 2024. The regular application deadline is Friday, January 10, 2025. 


SUPPORTING BFM & THE SOCIAL CONCERN OF THE MONTH


Supporting BFMBethesda Friends Meeting depends on our generosity to support its publications, religious education, childcare, and its “apportionment” payment to Baltimore Yearly Meeting—all of which connect us to each other and link us to the broader Quaker community.  Our contributions also support Quaker organizations and advocacy, education, and community groups attuned with Quaker values.  Contributions in any amount are always deeply appreciated. 

The Social Concern for October is Interfaith Workswhich provides affordable housing and social services to homeless families in Montgomery County as they transition from homelessness to independence. Although Montgomery County is considered affluent, more than 72,000 residents live on incomes below the federal poverty line. Approximately 900 people are homeless, including 85 families with children. BFM has been a member organization for more than 25 years. 

To donate to this Social Concern, please go to www.bethesdafriends.org/Donate-Online-NowClearly designate that your contribution is for this month's Social Concern. If you prefer, you may send your check, made payable to Bethesda Friends Meeting, to David M.,  Assistant Treasurer (see address in the BFM Directory, or use our Contact Us form). You are also welcome to donate to Bethesda Friends Meeting directly to support all Meeting activities via the same methods (online or by check)

The weekly bulletin is available by email. If you would like to add your name to the list, please email bethesdafm@igc.org The bulletin is also posted on the BFM web site: www.bethesdafriends.org Please send all items for next week’s bulletin to bulletin@bethesdafriends.org  UPDATED: Items must be in by 2:00 p.m.Thursday to ensure inclusion. Comments and suggestions are welcome and appreciated.

Bethesda Friends Meeting

Mailing Address:
P.O. Box 30152, Bethesda MD 20824

Our Meetinghouse is on the campus of the Sidwell Friends Lower School at the intersection of Edgemoor Lane and Beverly Road in Bethesda, Maryland

We are a member organization of the Religious Society of Friends

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