Bethesda Friends Meeting



Welcome to Bethesda Friends Meeting

We're Quakers who meet every Sunday at 11:00 a.m.
Our meetinghouse is on the Sidwell Friends Lower School campus.
We are worshiping in person and also via Zoom.  


Please note our schedules for BFM child care (ages 6 months-pre-K) and our school-age children (grades K-8). 
Click here for more information about our weekly activities and worship 

OUR TESTIMONIES: As members of the Religious Society of Friends, we strive for:

SIMPLICITY - Learning to discern the essential from the non-essential.

PEACE - Living in a spirit that takes away the occasion for all war.

INTEGRITY - Being who we truly are and truly meaning what we say.

COMMUNITY - Knowing that we need one another in order to be whole.

EQUALITY - Knowing that everyone, everywhere is equally precious to God. This includes people of all ages, abilities, sexual orientation, races, ethnicities, levels of resources, and theological perspectives.

STEWARDSHIP - Caring for the environment and using time and resources wisely, not wastefully.

Our queries this month reflect on Social Concerns 

How have I expressed my faith in action? How are my actions grounded in my faith? To what extent is my sense of justice based in love? In what ways do I endeavor to respond to my own pain and suffering, that of others, and in the wider world? How do we teach our children and show through our way of living that love of God includes our affirming the humanity and dignity of everyone and seeking that of God within every person? How do we prepare ourselves and our children to play active roles in a changing world?

Do you want to learn more
about Quakers?
Here are several choices
  • An introduction to Quakerism lead by Bethesda Friends Meeting (Jan-Feb 2026)
    • This program will be in-person during six sessions in January and February 2026. Please go to this Event link for more details, location, dates, and times. The sessions are meaningful for those new to Quakerism and those who want to delve deeper or participate in a refresher course.    
  • An introduction to Quakerism via seven brief emails in your inbox. 
  • Short QuakerSpeak Videos.
  • Quakers Today podcast.
  • Thee Quaker podcast. 
  • An "anytime" self-guided online class in Quakerism that provides an introduction for newcomers and a refresher for members through a diversity of perspectives.
  • Friends Journal website, includes access to their magazine articles.
  • A monthly "Worship for Newcomers" aims to support Friends and those new to Quakerism.    
  • More resources on our Visitor and Resources pages


  The Social Concerns Box for MARCH IS Right Sharing of world resources

 

Right Sharing of World Resources (RSWR) is an independent Quaker not-for-profit organization sharing the abundance of God’s love by working for equity through partnerships around the world.  With our meeting’s donations, RSWR can give grants to women marginalized in Guatemala, Kenya, Sierra Leone, and India to fund micro-enterprise projects. Right Sharing’s work is grounded in a sense of stewardship for the world’s material, human, and spiritual resources. The start-up money provided promotes self-sufficiency such as the purchase of seeds, well-digging, or the purchase of animals. RSWR provides Friends the means by which we can examine our lives of plenty. It offers a practical outlet to assist and share power with economically poor people (some of whom are Quakers), and come to a deeper understanding of economic discipleship as part of our individual and corporate life as a faith community. The RSWR web site also has educational resources for youth and adults. 

To donate to the Social Concerns Box in March, please use this link and clearly designate that your contribution is for the social concern, "RSWR".  If you prefer, you may send your check, payable to Bethesda Friends Meeting, to our Assistant Treasurer, David McClelland, 10101 Grosvenor Place, Apartment 1205, Rockville, MD 20852, noting "RSWR" in the memo.

OPPORTUNITY TO SERVE FROM HOME to HOME

Several members of our community participated in meals with the families and staff of House of Ruth during the Thanksgiving week last year. Another way BFM tries to work for justice is our relationship with the New Leaf Shelter run by Interfaith Works. New Leaf provides transitional housing to about 40 Montgomery County residents.  They also help their residents find jobs, education and housing, and overcome other challenges to getting back on their feet.  BFM is one of the many faith groups that provide meals for the shelter residents.

We currently provide Saturday night dinners to the shelter six times a year.   Our volunteers each provide one dish for about 20 people, delivering food just twice a year. Families who participate report that this is a great way to get their kids involved in helping others.  BFM is always looking for folks who are willing to step in as a back-up when a regular volunteer can't make it. If this sounds like something you'd like to help with, either as a regular volunteer or a back-up, please contact Jane Chalmers using the email:

grevechalmers "at" gmail.com


BFM volunteers and family members were grateful for the opportunity to join staff and families at The House of Ruth during 2025 Thanksgiving week for food and fellowship.    

    Upcoming events

    END OF LIFE ISSUES
    • BFM has formed an End of Life Group to provide legal, spiritual, and practical resources to help our community cope with the uncertainties and fears surrounding the end of life. 
    • The COVID-19 pandemic significantly elevated concerns about the health of family and friends, and the possibility that they could become gravely ill and die. 
    • Although conversations with our loved ones about such a possibility are difficult, it’s important to prepare.
    Please click here to see more details and resources

    RECURRING EVENTS

    Experiment with Light

    Monthly, on the 2nd and 4th Sundays, people at BFM use a meditative and centering practice based upon Rex Ambler’s book, Light to Live By. 

    This method describes early Quaker meditative habits and translates them into a highly accessible process of clearness and understanding. We offer this in-person and Zoom, using prompts at home that can be listened to onlinefollowed by a worship-sharing of your experience. 

    BFM Book Group

    This vibrant group meets via Zoom, discussing a variety of books on both Quaker and non-Quaker topics.

    1:30 - 3:15 PM, 2nd Saturday of each month

    Please use our Contact Us form for more information

    and the Zoom link.



    Comparative Religions:

    Sacred Texts of the World

    A BFM group hosts this class each Tuesday from 7:00-8:00 p.m. via Zoom.  The format is a half hour Great Courses video lecture followed by a half hour discussion. 

    • For more details on the 36 topics (Sept-May), go to our online calendar.
    • Use our Contact Us form to get the Zoom link or see your email weekly bulletin. Each session is self-contained, so anyone can attend any session.

    Wednesday Mid-Week Worship

    A group holds an at-home Worship

    on Wednesdays at 8:00 p.m.

    If you wish to join, please read the weekly announcement here. After the virtual Meeting there is a

    sharing time via email. 


    Bethesda Friends Meeting

    Mailing Address:
    P.O. Box 30152, Bethesda MD 20824

    Our Meetinghouse is on the campus of the Sidwell Friends Lower School at the intersection of Edgemoor Lane and Beverly Road in Bethesda, Maryland

    We are a member of the Religious Society of Friends

    www.bethesdafriends.org
    301-986-8681 (location recording only)
    info@bethesdafriends.org

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