Bethesda Friends Meeting



Welcome to Bethesda Friends Meeting

We're Quakers who meet every Sunday at 11:00 a.m.
Our meetinghouse is on the Sidwell Friends Lower School campus.
We are worshiping in person and also via Zoom.  


Please note our schedules for BFM child care (ages 6 months-pre-K) and our school-age children (grades K-8). 
Click here for more information about our weekly activities and worship 

OUR TESTIMONIES: As members of the Religious Society of Friends, we strive for:

SIMPLICITY - Learning to discern the essential from the non-essential.

PEACE - Living in a spirit that takes away the occasion for all war.

INTEGRITY - Being who we truly are and truly meaning what we say.

COMMUNITY - Knowing that we need one another in order to be whole.

EQUALITY - Knowing that everyone, everywhere is equally precious to God. This includes people of all ages, abilities, sexual orientation, races, ethnicities, levels of resources, and theological perspectives.

STEWARDSHIP - Caring for the environment and using time and resources wisely, not wastefully.

Our queries this month concern Simplicity:

What in my present life most distracts me from God? What am I ready to release so that I can give my attention to what matters most? How do the ways in which I choose to use my time, my possessions, my money, and my energy reflect my most deeply held values?

How do we support one another in our search for a simpler life?

Do you want to learn more
about Quakers?
Here are several choices
  • An introduction to Quakerism lead by Bethesda Friends Meeting (Jan-Feb 2026)
    • This program will be in-person during six sessions in January and February 2026. Please go to this Event link for more details, location, dates, and times. The sessions are meaningful for those new to Quakerism and those who want to delve deeper or participate in a refresher course.    
  • An introduction to Quakerism via seven brief emails in your inbox. 
  • Short QuakerSpeak Videos.
  • Quakers Today podcast.
  • Thee Quaker podcast. 
  • An "anytime" self-guided online class in Quakerism that provides an introduction for newcomers and a refresher for members through a diversity of perspectives.
  • Friends Journal website, includes access to their magazine articles.
  • A monthly "Worship for Newcomers" aims to support Friends and those new to Quakerism.    
  • More resources on our Visitor and Resources pages


  The Social Concerns Box for JANUARY IS

Chesapeake Climate Action Network


The Social Concerns Box in January is for CCAN, the Chesapeake Climate Action Network. CCAN has only a few paid staff (and a lot of volunteers), yet they do an impressive amount of organizing, lobbying, and legal work to promote the vital switch to clean energy and related programs. “The mission of CCAN is to build a diverse movement powerful enough to put our region on the path to climate stability, while using our proximity to the nation’s capital to inspire action in neighboring states, around the country, and across the world.” Their major fundraiser for years has been donations collected by volunteers who take a plunge into the Potomac River or other body of water in the midst of winter. This winter the plunge will be on Saturday, February 7. BFM is forming its own team of plungers and supporters - John Woolman's Woolybears - and all are invited to participate. (For details please consult the January newsletter)

To donate to the Social Concerns Box in January, please use this link and clearly designate that your contribution is for the social concern, "CCAN".  If you prefer, you may send your check, payable to Bethesda Friends Meeting, to our Assistant Treasurer, David McClelland, 10101 Grosvenor Place, Apartment 1205, Rockville, MD 20852, noting "CCAN" in the memo.

Lots of Thanks and Giving Between BFM and House of Ruth

On behalf of the Collective Journey's action group focusing on community outreach and reparative engagement, Marci Hodge has been cultivating a relationship with the House of Ruth. The action group is interested in supporting a strong, DC-based organization that works primarily with black women and their children. House of Ruth (HOR) was a great fit. In the face of funding cuts which would have prevented the organization from holding the annual Thanksgiving celebrations for their program participants, HOR's program staff reached out to see whether BFM members might host one of the events and attend to meet some of the residents and break bread togther.  Several members of our community made sure two dinners were catered for residents and their children during the Thanksgiving week.

Those in attendance, both from HOR and BFM, look forward to deepening the relationship in the future. The plan is to do activities quarterly in support of BFM's collective journey to address systemic racism.  


BFM volunteers and family members were grateful for the opportunity to join staff and families at The House of Ruth during Thanksgiving week for food and fellowship.    

    Upcoming events

    END OF LIFE ISSUES
    • BFM has formed an End of Life Group to provide legal, spiritual, and practical resources to help our community cope with the uncertainties and fears surrounding the end of life. 
    • The COVID-19 pandemic significantly elevated concerns about the health of family and friends, and the possibility that they could become gravely ill and die. 
    • Although conversations with our loved ones about such a possibility are difficult, it’s important to prepare.
    Please click here to see more details and resources

    RECURRING EVENTS

    Experiment with Light

    Monthly, on the 2nd and 4th Sundays, people at BFM use a meditative and centering practice based upon Rex Ambler’s book, Light to Live By. 

    This method describes early Quaker meditative habits and translates them into a highly accessible process of clearness and understanding. We offer this in-person and Zoom, using prompts at home that can be listened to onlinefollowed by a worship-sharing of your experience. 

    BFM Book Group

    This vibrant group meets via Zoom, discussing a variety of books on both Quaker and non-Quaker topics.

    1:30 - 3:15 PM, 2nd Saturday of each month

    Please use our Contact Us form for more information

    and the Zoom link.



    Comparative Religions:

    Sacred Texts of the World

    A BFM group hosts this class each Tuesday from 7:00-8:00 p.m. via Zoom.  The format is a half hour Great Courses video lecture followed by a half hour discussion. 

    • For more details on the 36 topics (Sept-May), go to our online calendar.
    • Use our Contact Us form to get the Zoom link or see your email weekly bulletin. Each session is self-contained, so anyone can attend any session.

    Wednesday Mid-Week Worship

    A group holds an at-home Worship

    on Wednesdays at 8:00 p.m.

    If you wish to join, please read the weekly announcement here. After the virtual Meeting there is a

    sharing time via email. 


    Bethesda Friends Meeting

    Mailing Address:
    P.O. Box 30152, Bethesda MD 20824

    Our Meetinghouse is on the campus of the Sidwell Friends Lower School at the intersection of Edgemoor Lane and Beverly Road in Bethesda, Maryland

    We are a member of the Religious Society of Friends

    www.bethesdafriends.org
    301-986-8681 (location recording only)
    info@bethesdafriends.org

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